She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. No doubt that all rightetous persons will accept Christ but not everyone that dies will be righteous. Know her limits on substances. And some of them are selfish and fully aware that as a doctor they can pull in hot females, many of whom will put up with being treated poorly. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. A few years, maybe. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly.
You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. I used to be religious when I was a kid. A few weeks into the break, he moved to begin his EM residency.
Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. One small thing to add here.
Do you think that is too draining too. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. Break up with her. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths.